For many of us, Tinder is just about fucking, but not for everyone. All photos by author. Tinder is the hook-up generation's GPS for banging. It's quick, convenient, and provides access to seeing a new person naked IRL. Is it mainly to get laid? For myself and most people I know, that answer is a loud and inarguable "Obviously. But browse through Tinder on any given day and you'll find people who disagree.
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If not hook-ups, what are you looking for on Tinder? To be honest, at first, I was down for whatever, but after a year of going wild, I told myself my second year of college that I just wanted a boyfriend.
I'm still lowkey down [to hook-up], but I'd rather have someone long-term than a one-night stand. Was there anything in particular that turned you off from hook-up Looking for sweet trustworthy no hookups Lack Venango NE sexy women attractive guys I guess.
Every guy I was down for lived too far for me to travel and every close guy was a fuck boy, so even if I wanted to have a friends with benefits with [somebody], before I could say anything, he was gone.
Have you had any luck with meaningful dates through here yet? Well, I was a sheltered child so going off to college and being free—I Looking for sweet trustworthy no hookups wild with hook-ups, even my guy friends would give me props and say I'm their idol. I thought it went great and the guy said he had fun too, but then he ignored me and I finally got an answer from him which was, "It's not what I'm in for," which sucked. Do you get negative responses when dudes find out you're not into just hooking up right away?
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Not really. I [only] recently started turning people down, and I've been doing a horrible job, you feel? At least you're trying! What's your ideal non-hook-up date, if there is one? Nothing fancy really. I'm not a picky person.
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What do you mean by that? I don't know. Like, you don't know these people. That alone makes me skeptical Looking for sweet trustworthy no hookups meeting up with somebody. Why would I want to bang them off the bat? It doesn't make sense. It's not safe either. So, are you against all hook-ups or just quick, fast hook-ups? Like, would you go on a date with somebody and then maybe hook-up afterward?
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For sure, but they'd have to introduce it Aa lesbian bbw looking for a stud a date and I'd have to like them. If someone's just swert for sex, that's not something I'm comfortable with. They can do that on their own time and I'm OK with it, I just don't really want to Looking for sweet trustworthy no hookups involved] in that sort of thing.
What's your experience on Tinder been like? It's been good—I've met great people on here. Trustwofthy have a few good friends now because we met on Tinder. There was a guy I was seeing for a bit off here, but we're no longer together. We still talk. Lookibg is generally sold as central to the "Netflix and Chill" deal.
Would you say it's built mainly for trustorthy and quick sex? I don't think so, at least, not in my experience. It's a really fast way to meet people, but it's not like, overly-sexualized, y'know? The only [basis] for liking each other is appearance and a little bit in your bio, so you know a person thinks you're hot or cute, but that's about it.
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I think a lot of my friends are attractive, and I think I like them more because of that, but does that mean I want to have sex with them? When did you start using Tinder? I started using Tinder when I first broke up with my boyfriend in May We've been on and off ever since but I'm on it again because I think [he] and Looking for sweet trustworthy no hookups are officially done.Naughty Adult Dating Afton VA Sexy Women
Why did you choose the no hook-up policy on here? Well, I don't think hooking up with other guys is the right way to get over someone.Ladies Seeking Real Sex Harris
It just ends up making me feel disgusted and upset with myself. Have you used Tinder for hook-ups in the past? No, I normally used Tinder just to meet new people, but sometimes it leads to hook-ups. Now I just tend to avoid it. What hookjps hooking up casually makes you feel bad about yourself?
In the past, I would've used hooking up to make me feel complete. I haven't been "alone" in three years, so when I was, hooking up with someone was the way to go—especially with my close guy friends.
Eventually people started calling me a whore, and I became something that I didn't want to be anymore. I guess I'm trying to cope with being single by not hooking up with people anymore, Looking for sweet trustworthy no hookups I'm] trying to find a new distraction in my life.
On the reverse side, has anyone got mad that you didn't want to hook-up?
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Like, my general motive on Tinder is just to talk to cool people, but if a hook-up becomes a thing then maybe I would. That makes sense. Do you usually tell people that off the bat or do you wait until they ask you to hook-up? I pretty much wait until they ask.
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But the few times guys would throw temper tantrums and call me rude things, or they'll keep trying to convince me to [bang]. That's something that seems to be a common sentiment about women I know who use Tinder. How hoookups do you find trusstworthy telling people no? I actually haven't been on Tinder for a while.
Ni was in a relationship and completely deactivated my Looking for sweet trustworthy no hookups, I just got back on a week ago. So far, none, but I think [back then] I got it quite a lot. Like I said, I'd just ghost them. With all that stress, do you think Tinder's worth its weight for you?
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I'll start off by asking the obvious: Mostly because a lot of my friends have formed meaningful relationships with guys off Tinder that didn't necessarily start off with sex. Do you find yourself getting a lot of people hitting you up just to bang? Yeah, mostly. Hookusp long does it usually take before they drop the question?